I admit it - I am fully "hair-impaired" What was a luxury of my childhood - having a mother who would "do" my hair any way I wanted any morning of the week - has turned into a continual adulthood dilemma...
The Hair
Most days it's just there, and rather than revel in it's presence, or the fact that I have enough hair for several people inhabiting my scalp, I look in the mirror and think, what next? It isn't that I don't have s multitude of things that I could do, or a variety of objects with which to adorn my locks, I think the trouble is really, well, vocabulary.
Each time I go to a salon I ask for a haircut and each time I'm less than satisfied with the result. Herein lies the power of using the appropriate vocabulary. What I really want from the salon is a hair
style. Such a simple distinction and yet such immense power in the employment of one simple word.
Finally, I finally jumped in and did it. After three or four years of a variety of color - the blonde, the blue, the purple (which I loved,) I realized that while these things were fun they still didn't help with the overall impact that my hair, sometimes unfortunately, made. So, just a few days ago I went to the salon and asked for a hair
style. The result was something I actually liked. The price involved having to realize that being an adult and wanting nice looking hair was going to require a small amount of effort and a complimentary amount of well placed hair product. The result is that I no longer feel like my hair is an animal that rests and sometimes attacks from a perch on my shoulders, but is now an asset. A part of me that I can and intend to enjoy.
So, my advice to those of you who are sporting the perma-pony weeks from when you've stepped into a gym; take the leap into the salon and get the hair
style of your life.